A Clear Rejection Is Better Than A Fake Promise

Both the rejection and a fake promise are going to hurt, but a clear rejection will indicate that you can move on. Fake promises on the other hand, will raise your hopes so high that it would take you to a point after which you won't be able to accept the truth and you'll be so broken that you'd find it impossible to move on.

Being selfish and keeping someone hanging on to false hope is an evil cowardly thing to do. If you want someone to get over it quickly, just reject clearly. Fake promises might help you sail past a day or two, but the fact remains that a false front will come out eventually and will turn your life into chaos for expecting too much.

We experience too much rejection in this lifetime. If you just got recently turned down by something or someone you really wanted, how do you make sure you'll confidently move on to the next chapter of your life whether the rejection may seem minimal or too huge to handle?

Often than not, after a rejection we tend to think maybe we were not good enough. While there may be pointers which we can positively improve on after a rejection, we must know the unfortunate situation did not happen because it's entirely our fault. However, we just need to look on the brighter side. Be strong enough to see the positive side of a rejection. When we're turned down, then this means we don't have to handle the possible burdens or responsibilities involved. Instead, we should further polish our skills towards aiming for a much better, even more, preferable opportunity.

Take the rejection as a step for better opportunities. Believe me but it's true that when one door closes, a window opens. In other words, this means that if one specific opportunity did not turn out well, then, there are more chances for you to keep seeing better options. However, it does not mean you can still afford to miss out on the next few ones. You'll be much better off to seize every possible chance for improvement, based from your own experience.

Rejection is never easy to accept. But, they do not exist in this world for just the sake of tormenting us; rather, they actually hold a lot of lessons which we can learn from. Another thing, rejection is not the worst thing that can ever happen to you. It is still better than a fake promise.

Don't say promises that you cant keep. You are just letting the other person hold on to something that can't be done and that's totally unfair. Being true even if it will hurt is more acceptable than a lie.